Guest blog by Pam Vaughan When people hear the word tenacious, they often imagine someone scaling a mountain or running a marathon against all odds. But for children’s book writers, tenacity often shows up in quieter, humble ways like rewriting a story for the tenth (or hundredth) time, sending one more query after a string of rejections, or asking for feedback even when it stings. When I worked on my latest picture book, Tenacious Won’t Give Up (Knopf Books for Young Readers, 2025), I lived its title every step of the way. There were endless drafts, puzzling plot points, and moments I wondered if the story would ever click or if I should just move on. But how could I write a book called Tenacious and give up? What kept me going was the story’s potential and the encouragement of my writing partners - picture book writing isn't a solo climb after all. They reminded me that persistence isn’t about perfection; it’s about progress. Sometimes tenacity is a whisper of inspiration or a nod of encouragement. After some passes from editors, one editor responded this way: “Hmm, this one’s tricky! I really love the title and the core of what it’s going after. The story isn’t quite special enough yet. Perhaps a lighter touch on the message might do it? If Pam rethinks it, I’d be happy to take another look.” At first, I saw it as a pass. But then three phrases jumped out:
I studied all of the editor’s other books, searching for what I was missing. Then I rethought, revised, and refined the manuscript with fresh perspective and trusted feedback. When we resubmitted, the editor said yes. That experience taught me that tenacity isn’t just about trying harder…it’s about trying smarter. Sometimes pushing through isn’t the answer. Listening is. Adjusting is. As children’s authors, we hope our readers keep learning, growing, and believing in themselves. Our own creative journeys mirror that same message. Tenacity isn’t all grit and grind. It’s also patience, openness, and trust. Here are a few ways to cultivate your own quiet tenacity: 1. Find Your Team Children’s literature thrives on community. Join a critique group, trade pages, or share ideas with other writers. Feedback may sting, but it’s a gift that grows your resilience. 2. Redefine Success Tenacity isn’t about never falling; it’s about getting up curious. Instead of asking, “Did I get published?” ask, “What did I learn from this draft or rejection?” Every insight is a step forward. 3. Celebrate Small Steps Every revision, query, or idea scribbled in a notebook counts. These tiny acts of persistence build the foundation for stories that will one day connect deeply with readers. If you’re revising, waiting, or doubting your story today know this: you’re not alone. Your persistence matters. Your words matter. And your tenacity, quiet, humble, and grounded in community can carry you through. How has tenacity shown up in your writing journey? Share your story in the comments so we can all cheer each other on! In addition to Tenacious Won't Give Up, illustrated by Leanne Hatch, Pam is the author of Missy Wants a Mammoth (Pixel+Ink, 2024), illustrated by Ariel Landy. She is the director of the Whispering Pines Writers’ Retreat and a co-assistant regional advisor for New England SCBWI and holds a Master’s degree in Business Management from the Heller School. Learn more about Pam here.
3 Comments
10/8/2025 12:30:08 pm
Wonderful advice!
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Alice Fulgione
10/8/2025 02:12:24 pm
I loved your advice to writers & I truly love Tenacious!
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Connie Smith
10/9/2025 07:30:46 pm
Such a fantastic theme. So authentic! Writing what you know and what you live.
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